paninindigan ko na ung head title ng blog na ito. kung meron mang naliligaw PALAGE sa blog na ito nagtataka kung ano ba talaga reason ng break up namin, heto na.
this is one of the MOST MEMORABLE EXPERIENCE i never thought i would have. this happened last september of 2005. we’re still not together at that time and he still have some issues with his ex for 4+yrs. we went to 2 bars at the same night, we were 4 then, we were 2 couples closest to each other at work. after a few beers and few hours of chit chat we decided to go home.. and WE decided that i take him home, tipsy na xa, or nagttipsy-tipsyhan? hehe kidding aside-anyway, we slept together in his room whish is a few meters away from their house, his room is separated kc, in a few hours since it’s already 3am. i felt that something’s gonna happen and so i’m paranoid already to go home. around 6-7am, his step-dad shouted that his ex called! W.T.F.?! this early?? and then we hurriedly fix ourselves so that i can go home. he opened the door…
both of us were really terrified! kahit ngaun nga while writing this bigla ako kinabahan, i dunno. his ex is standing in front of it, she pushed the door and entered, i can tell how SHOCKED she was when she saw me there. and i’m shocked as well, she’s chubby and strong, she can knock me off..funny but true. then she asked us “sino yan ha?!” we’re both speechless, she started crying and screaming and hurting him. i felt the pain every time she’s hurting him, and guess what, she slapped me as well. not that painful but he reacted that it’s why the ex was terrified once more. she ran away and called his MOM!
i was a bit worried and at the same time clueless of what will happen next, he was left speechless. the mom came in- i wished that we could just disappear at that time. she asked what am i doing there, and finally he explained that i just slept there since i we went home late. the girl was still hysterical and his mom said it’s better if i leave. i didn’t know what to do, i just went out and he even wants to follow me but of course those two will not let him.
after what happened, he called that night but for only a few minutes since he’s being monitored. we realized that there’s SOMETHING already between us. his mom forbid him to come to work, but of course that’s not possible so i received txt messages like, is he with me, leave him alone, etc.. even on my bday celebration, she texted me those kind of messages! if she only knew it was my bday..sigh..
the ex kept on saying that they’re still together and they’re happy, as if i don’t know what’s been going on. i kept quiet, i said that if he comes back to you, he’s ALL YOURS. i trusts him.
after a few months, even we’re on a different companies, we kept our relationship SECRET, there was a time on our 6th monthsary, his ex’s bestfriend saw us and asked “sino yan ha?!” kafal no? feeling ex? he proudly said “girlfriend ko..”:) aaww… after we passed that girl i asked him why did he said that, lagot kme..of course the news reached the TWO again. his mom and he had an argument, he almost leave their house because of that but good thing it didn’t happened. we decided to cool things off, but we’re still together in a more discreet way..is there such a word discreeter?? kidding aside again.
his mom is always on a perfect timing, before our FIRST ANNIVERSARY, she felt that there’s still something between us. she asked him, and so CHAOS again. we didn’t celebrate our anniv. pathetic! cannot talk, cannot see each other, cannot be together, and the worst came in-he needs to decide. the only way to communicate is through emails. i thought of it really hard, after a few weeks, i finally decided..i can’t let him choose between his mom and me, i know it’s hurting him so i just broke up with him. i didn’t receive any emails after 2mos, my bday came again without him and i was so weak and prone to sickness. i called in every now and then and filed for a leave since my health is suffering. after 2mos, we began exchanging emails again, he said sorry and he can’t explain but all i know is that he still loves me. he never knew what happened to me and what our break up caused me. after 4mos, we decided to go out. still we’re not together, but we both know that we still love each other.
That’s our story..still on the process..nyway after all, in most fairy tales couples didn’t find each other until the last page.
now i’m wondering, could it be any harder if i tried the “DISCREETEST”?…
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